Carreño-Meléndez J, Henales-Almaraz MC, Sánchez-Bravo C

Language: Spanish
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ABSTRACT

During life cycle some of the dilemmas that come up are related with loving issues. Clinically, love is the event which unleashes depressive or anxious manifestations most frequently, as well as generates interpersonal and intrapersonal questioning. By means of it daily life, relationships and conflicts are built. For male and female love relationship is a mixture where ideology, objectivity, subjectivity, feelings, internal world, life history converge, is not only about affection expression between two human beings. To keep a love relationship there most be a permanent renounced to autoerotic enjoyment and when is developed in reality framework, is in permanent feedback. This is why distance between real beloved person and the one in the fantasy is not too large, in agreement that love must grow and develop; any attempt to the previous agreements and rules that should manage a relationship is considered as mistreated. It can be define by considerable facts, but also by trivial situations. A relationship ends when indifference, feeling opposite to love, appears.

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